Once New York · Coaching

First dates, second opinions.

A real date with a woman who tells us exactly how you came across. Then we tell you.

30 minutes, on the phone. Credited toward your first date.

How it works

  1. We talk for 30 minutes. I find the actual problem.
  2. You go on a real date. One hour, a bar we pick.
  3. She writes down everything. I tell you what matters.

The coaches

Maya

Maya 31

Therapist · Fort Greene

NoticesYour first ninety seconds.

Fade Into You — Mazzy Star

Erin

Erin 28

Finance · Lower East Side

NoticesWhether you're interesting or performing.

Bad Habit — Steve Lacy

Jess

Jess 33

Teacher · Astoria

NoticesWhether you actually asked her anything.

This Must Be the Place — Talking Heads

Naomi

Naomi 29

Dancer · Bushwick

NoticesEverything that isn't words.

Cellophane — FKA twigs

Simone

Simone 35

Advertising · West Village

NoticesWhere you land against everyone else.

Hyperballad — Björk

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Step one
Intro call$30

Date packages come after the call, once I know you're a fit.

Not ready

Leave your name and I'll tell you when spots open.

The rules

The coaches are working and they're paid. No numbers exchanged, nobody gets asked out, everyone leaves at the hour. That frame is what makes the feedback worth anything.